Defining Success as Less

Back in 2020, I maintained a 100-day workout streak. Each day I would find time to ensure that I don’t break the chain. My fitness improved and I felt great. 

Then life happened, had other responsibilities to take care of and as a result, I took a long break from exercising. Consequently, I put on weight, felt lazy and developed revulsion to the idea of working out. 

I wanted to break out of it but just found it so hard to restart. 

Whenever the thought of working out crossed my mind, the idea of being my old fit self where I could run 5k under 30 min felt too daunting, too overwhelming. And I used to give up. Again and again. 

This used to be a recurring pattern with my other habits like reading and writing too. The longer the break, the harder it became to restart. 

Then something changed: I changed my definition of what a successful day looked like. 

I redefined success as less. 

On days I didn’t feel like running, I defined success as walking for 10 minutes. 

On days I didn’t feel like reading, I defined success as reading 10 pages. 

On days I didn’t feel like writing, I defined success as writing 10 sentences. 

This shift in my thinking toward doing hard things helped me restart. 

The best part was when I walked for that 10 min, read those 10 pages, wrote those 10 sentences, I usually kept going for some more time. Even if I didn’t, I was fine with it. I felt content knowing that the day has been a success. 

I realised why the idea works. 

When you are in a slump, two horrible things happen. One, you don’t do the work you should be doing. And two, you are overcome with guilt that you have wasted yet another day. Guilt turns into self-criticism. Criticism turns into self-pity. Self-pity turns into sadness and then into despondency.  

By defining success as an easily doable task, you make it easy for you to restart. You don’t spend your time finding fault with yourself and wallowing in self-pity, but feel good because you have taken steps towards your goal. That feeling of fulfilment is powerful. It’s the fuel you fill for doing the task the next day.

When you are feeling overwhelmed and find yourself unable to do something you ought to do, define success as less. 

Never forget that achieving big goals begin with small, incremental steps.

50 thoughts on “Defining Success as Less

  1. Anonymous

    Just the kind of post, I needed to read! Thank you for sharing your experience and insights. 😊

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  2. Anonymous

    Useful way of daily self motivation and maintaining consistency. I start doing it from the moment itself. Thankyou sir.

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  3. Anonymous

    Wonderful thought which you used here
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  4. Deepti

    So so true…it happens to each one of us..

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  5. Anonymous

    This blog reminds me a book- “Atomic Habits” by James Clear.He also expressed the same pattern to stick to a habit.

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  6. Navya Sri

    Beautifully written <3
    and a much needed post 🙂

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  7. Nikshitha Neelagiri

    It happens atleast once in everyones life,but your thoughts are inspirational.

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  8. Anonymous

    It is the best example of small startups in hardwork makes ur success more easier. And it is well explained it here.

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  9. Anonymous

    ❤❤

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  10. Anonymous

    The way you express your thoughts, makes it more interesting. Thanks a lot Sir for sharing this.

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  11. Anonymous

    Feeling overwhelmed by my oldselves and stop doing my Chorus is what I am all through. 100% relatable.

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  12. Anonymous

    Tq sir

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  13. Anjali

    Step by step. 🌻

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  14. Unknown

    Never make any goal. Because I think that without goal life is beautiful
    – 𝘿𝘼𝙍𝙆 𝙆𝙉𝙄𝙂𝙃𝙏

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  15. Santosh Singh

    First step is thinking about it.
    Bcoz thinking is the seedlings of realities..
    Consistency of any action no longer till start restart process doesn’t exist..

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  16. Anonymous

    Your insights always teach us something valuable.. Sometimes we start to forget these important lessons and blame circumstances.. We also forget what we can do in that situation.. Then start to remind your lessons , your findings you have shared with us ..those help me a lot to rejuvinate myself.. Thank you so much sir.. Respect for you from West Bengal ..

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  17. Anonymous

    You have developed great skill to connect with your writing

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  18. Chetana A Poleshi

    A must needed article… Seriously this thing can be applied and i can work on it…thank u sir

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  19. Anonymous

    This happens with everyone but when it said by u ,gives more confidence to follow this way

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  20. Anonymous

    Sir how much time do you get to practice vipassana meditation on daily basis..?
    Are you able to attend 10 days course once a year..?

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  21. Neyawn

    You made my day ! This was one of the best posts you have written in a long time !

    – Neyawn

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  22. Anonymous

    Thanks for the idea of redefining success. Most needed idea of the present time.

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  23. Dullamani bag

    Thank you anudeep sir

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  24. Meghal

    🙂🙏

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  25. Samiksha

    Samee. It happens with me.. You said it right begin with small.. thankyou anudeep sir.. Amazing blog..
    “Growing everyday”🌺
    ~Samiksha

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  26. Anonymous

    Thanku sir

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  27. Anonymous

    Thank you sir

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  28. Priyanka Barnikala

    Soo motivational and neeeded article ❤️some Times I think the same way u mentioned in the article…but I have to improve it a lot..Tnq sir

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  29. akhila vollala

    Iam in the same state, this one quenched my thirst… Thank you sir

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  30. Anonymous

    must appreciate the PERFECT PICTURE!

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  31. Viplav Bagheriya

    Pragmatic way towards success.

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    1. Sourabh Mandliya

      You’re a LEGEND sir! learnt a lot of things from you.

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  32. Syed Farooz ali

    Indeed, this was valuable for us. Thanks a ton sir.

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  33. Anonymous

    Its been long time since you wrote to us, from last few days I kept on checking my mail box to see if you’ve posted something. and trust me I literally needed the exact kind of words you’ve written. Thank you for being there sir. Lots of respect.

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  34. Anonymous

    Thank you sir for sharing this
    I am facing the problem of wasting my each day just thinking about board exams and doing nothing
    Thanks again for changing my perspective about success

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  35. eishita gupta

    I like your writings and this blog. This post is good reminder of how powerful Atomic Habits are.
    Thank you for these wonderful words.

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  36. Anonymous

    Always inspiring sir!!

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  37. Vishwajit Rane

    This is damm true….”The best part was when I walked for that 10 min, read those 10 pages, wrote those 10 sentences, I usually kept going for some more time”. When we r overwhelmed, it will act as fuel for next day work. Thanks.

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  38. Anonymous

    Refreshing to read these experiences.

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  39. Karunya

    Ur blogs always gives me a kind positive vibes..
    Some lines feels like iam reflecting myself while reading them .
    PPL usually have a habit of postponing thing .we just think it as a normal one. But it’s a big thing where actual problem begins ..
    Ur words are really impressive sir . Always inspiring, mirror reflecting.

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  40. Anonymous

    Thank you<3

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  41. Anonymous

    This helped…

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  42. Anonymous

    Loved it… exremely well penned thought process..

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  43. bestshikshaguide

    Very nice content and blog, I found it very informative and useful, hope to read more nice articles like this one around here,

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  44. Anirudh Sethi

    You’re my inspiration.

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  45. Sarika kumari

    Thank you sir for share such a wonderful thought which is well planned

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  46. meghana

    Sir your beautiful idea (Defining Success as Less) made me to restart my preparation. I know it is not enough to just say thank you for this help. But from my side I want to say a heartfelt thank you. Keep motivating us like this ❤️❤️❤️.

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